ou’re feeling may be depression — Not laziness
This is often where self-hatred begins to creep in. You look at other people managing full-time jobs, exercising, and maintaining social lives, and you start viewing yourself as worthless because you cannot even bring yourself to check your mail.
But, of course, this very “functional impairment” is what distinguishes a depressive state from mere unhappiness. This is more than just the “mood” itself; it is the mental confusion and disorganization that impacts your capacity to think clearly, remember things, and concentrate. In effect, the mind is working in an economical manner so as to save energy.
5. There is no clear reason “why”
Procrastination is almost always situational in nature. You procrastinate due to the grey skies, or the tedious work in accounting that you have to complete, or due to exhaustion from working hard for the entire week. Cause and effect exist.
Depression, on the other hand, is quite perplexing because it often strikes at times when everything seems to be going well in life.
Even though you have a secure job, an understanding partner, and enough food in the refrigerator, there’s an overwhelming feeling of despondency and lack of motivation within you. Consequently, you experience extreme amounts of guilt, as you tell yourself that you have no reason whatsoever to feel that way; hence, you tell yourself, “I have no reason to feel this way, so I must just be lazy and ungrateful.”
However, mental well-being doesn’t involve a calculation of the positive externalities in your life. It’s more of an internal ecosystem. Things such as your chemical makeup, genetics, or previous emotional experiences could cause depression irrespective of how “perfect” your life seems to others. Realizing that you don’t necessarily have a “reason” to be depressed is a good starting point for self-love.
6. It doesn’t feel like a choice
At the end of the day, the biggest difference between laziness and depression is agency.
Being lazy is a sort of passive state, while depression is like carrying a burden. Laziness makes one feel comfortable enough at the moment, while depression makes you regret not having accomplished enough at work. Depression means being critical of yourself and unable to perform.
Those suffering from depression tend to be extremely hard-working, since they have to put twice the amount of effort into their actions than everyone else does in order to seem normal. But once the burden becomes too much, they collapses because of the exhaustion.
As the American Psychiatric Association explains, depression is a complex condition that significantly impacts every facet of a person’s existence. It is a health crisis, not a character flaw.
*Medical Disclaimer: This article is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered medical or mental health advice. It is not a substitute for professional diagnosis, treatment, or guidance from a qualified healthcare provider. If you are struggling with your mental health or believe you may be experiencing depression, please consult a licensed medical or mental health professional.
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